They say that Atlanta, New York and California have the biggest gay communities!
So why is it that in our society people are so judgmental? Why are people so concerned about about someone’s sexual preference?
I have a lot of gay friends so even tho I am not I do not judge them. They are people just like we are. They build relationships, bonds, marry and raise children like we do. Religion wise people say that it’s wrong, but why do you care what they are doing? If you feel that they will go to hell why send yourself to hell for judging?
Our society wants to say we accept others for who they are but we don’t. I know some of the most judgmental people I swear. Living in Chicago these past 6 months I’ve seen some of the most judgmental people. People who are so worried about if their friends are gay! I had a conversation with someone and they were asking if they should ask another associate if she was gay or not? My question is why do you care? Will them being gay change the way you view them? Will it make you not want to hang out with them? If the answer to those 2 questions were yes than maybe you need to look inside yourself. Just because someone is gay doesn’t mean the person you’ve grown to know and love is not there.
In my opinion, I think that people who are “Homophobic” have gay tendencies. I believe they might want to try out some same sex action. The reason they are Homophobic is because they are so ashamed of how they have and others have treated the gay community that they would be labelled as a hypocrite. They feel like being attracted to the same sex is dirty and wrong that they hate the person who is comfortable with themselves.
But I’ll end this on this one last comment. Up until around 40 years maybe less African Americans were labelled as dirty and wrong. That didn’t change who we were character wise. We have always been who we are. There are bad seeds in every group!